For those of you who don’t know exactly what an orgasm is, let us explain. This is an emotional and physical sensation that is a result of rhythmic contractions of your pelvic floor muscles, your genitals, your partners parts, and the uterus. The feeling of sexual excitement is triggered by an rapid increase in the blood flow to your genitals. This instance is easier for males to achieve over their female counterparts as men have the right anatomy.
The sad part is that only one in every three women say they experience at least one orgasm while having sex with their partner. Some females can only reach their point of climax if the clitoris is directly stimulated. This is one thing that is typically unusual for many sexual experiences. Not because men don’t want to do it, but they seem to forget that women need multiple routes of stimulation at the same time to reach that pleasurable point of orgasm.
We would like to change this percentage of women who are going without climaxing by sharing a few simple tips that you can apply while having sex to increase your odds of this sensational outcome.
First, take into account your breathing. Speeding up your breathing from a deep and slow pattern to a more quicker one spikes their sexual arousal. And this triggers a better orgasmic capability. Along these same lines you need to be familiar with your own body and what turns you on. This means sometimes going it solo and feeling around until you find what you like. Each woman is a little bit different when it comes to what sexual stimulates them. When you discover the things that work for you, and the motions that don’t be sure to share these findings with your partner. The only way to get an orgasm is to work at it. And this means bringing your partner on board with you. If you need to use sexually stimulating gels like the popular v-tight gel.
The single most important thing you can do is live in the moment. Enjoy the touch of your partner and focus on how their body is against yours. Don’t like about other things during sex that will distract your from having that ‘ohh’ moment. The one thing that most women report thinking about during sex is how their body looks for their partner. No we aren’t saying don’t care. But instead, feel confidence in the way you look. You will be surprised to find out that the look of your body is not the only thing that sexual arouses your partner. There is a physiological mentality at play here too.
Take these tips and apply them to your sex life. Don’t be uncomfortable in your own skin. Enjoy the moment and live in it if you wish to get a better orgasm. Or have one in general for that matter.